Attitudes towards sex & Love

[Wedge Dassan]

There are many attitudes towards sex in many of earths difrent cultures these have changed over the years allthough young I have read up alot of sexual stuff and my mum who is very open andfd wants me to be open has talked to me about it alot.

I can also say the same thing about love many adults have said to me I am to young to know love but I think and so do many others that love is what you make it not what others tell you it is.

What are your opinion on Love and Sex and do you agree with what adults have said to me?

[Sean Flameheart]

I disagree. i agree with you about love being what you make it. it is possible to be too young but i think you are old enough once you begin to realize that childhood "girlfriends" or "boyfriends" are just friends of the opposite sex. I have a lot of things to sya about love, maybe later though because i gotta do some HW

[sandra]

Well, my attitude towards sex is that there's far to much talk about it.
I don't think you can be too young for love, but you can very well be too young for sex.

[Wedge Dassan]

I agree with you one the sex bit Sandraou have to be emotionly reasdy aswell as physicly.

Can any one geuss what age I am?

[Sean Flameheart]

umm..your profile says 13, i would have guessed around 15...

[Wedge Dassan]

I told it not to show my age yes I am 13 but not imature like most 13 year olds.

[Sean Flameheart]

i am a moderator..i can see all your info, like your "hidden" e-mail addrss

[dylan]

First and foremost, sex should be because you really, trully deeply love someone. Anything less and it just becomes a thing. Bad thing about sex, once you have it, you want it more and more and more. Trust. I wish that I wouldn't have lost my virginity 'cause it's hard not to think about it once you start up a relationship. I'm one that I've been raised as a gentleman with all that chivialry and such. I open doors for women I like, even some that i don't, and as such, I hate it when I start imagining what and how I'm going to please her physically when I should be wondering what she likes and who she is as a person.

Love, you could be in love.

[sandra]

Anyway, I grew up thinking something was wrong with me as I disliked boys (not mentally but physically). It took me a long time to realize that a)I liked girls more b) that's okay c) I very often act and feel like a guy, but am still a girl, that is, what I wear is important, I like make-up and girlish films (though they mostly involve guys...:-( ) and such.

Sex is funny. Sex is about warmth and trustm and for me the right background music. But Love is my shield against the World.

[Sean Flameheart]

oh...nice story sandra, and now for my tear jerker. I grew up liking quite a few different girl, some at the same time, some not. I was never lucky enough to get the girls that i like. i always competed for them and wrote them notes and such. All i got for my troubles was a shrug and sumtimes a hi every now and thne, but only if i said hi first. that was middles school. I could understand because girls dont really like guys yet. But now in highschool, I have the same problem. Less competition and notes but more being shot down. I've never had sex andd mainly i think that this is because i have never had a girl friend for longer thant a few days. ok i guess i'm done

[Ethin Halcyon]

Sounds like me, although I haven't had as many opportunities since I am homeschooled. But also its ok if you haven't had sex yet Serka. Sex should be saved for someone who you want to and are going to spend the rest of your life with (your future wife). Remember, your being a virgin is a good thing....don't give it away to just anyone, wait for the one who will spend the rest of your life with.
Anyhow thats what I have to say about that.